Take Care of Self

Being selfish sometimes is not always a bad thing. You have to take care of self first, and that means sometimes putting your needs in front of others. The reality is 95% of society do what pleases them first, and sometimes it just happens to correlate with your plans. But when it doesn't, best believe that their needs and desires will supercede yours. You can not run yourself ragged or stretch yourself too thinly trying to please everyone around you. It's unhealthy and it will lead to some serious psychological and emotional issues, which can manifest themselves into real live physical problems. Everyone has their own set of personal responsibilities, issues, and obstacles that they face. If you do not take time to deal with your own problems, how could you believe that you can really help someone elses with theirs?????? Take time everyday to do things that make you happy, regardless to whatever else you have going on your life. No one is going to take care of you and make you a priority like you can. And honestly if the people in your life can't understand that, then they don't love you like they claim they do. Take that as a sign and put their asses on Pause, and then continue to do you. : )

Stars and Love
Brown Girl